"unfortunately"

And while I'm at it (I'm in a ranting mood tonight)...I discovered a new pet peeve today. People who say "unfortunately" in friendly, casual situations. That word should be reserved for business situations, when you're politely relaying impersonal bad news. If you and I are friends, and we have plans to get coffee together, don't call me and say "Unfortunately, I won't be able to make it."

You sound like a salesman. It makes me feel distant from you and like your heart is detached from the conversation. It's right up there with "I regret to inform you" and "This is a mutually disadvantageous situation." Talk to me like a friend, not like a collections officer.

Thanks. And now back to your regularly scheduled programming.